Leading a team through change isn’t just about the strategy; it’s about understanding the emotions that come with it. It's important to focus on feelings because they can seriously affect how well a team moves through change. How often have you heard that "we need to keep our emotions out if it!" This archaic and outdated model of leadership overlooks the fundamentals of human behaviour. Instead you MUST pay attention to feelings, both yours and everyone else's.
In a recent HBR article about Storytelling That Drives Bold Change, Frances X. Frei and Anne Morriss listed the 10 Underrated Emotions in Change Narratives that we often overlook but can be incredibly influential when leading through change:
Recognising and harnessing these emotions can be a significant asset in steering your team through the often turbulent waters of change.
"To lead is to communicate, to communicate is to feel, and to feel is to connect."
If you're leading through change, talk about your feelings and listen to others. It’s not a sign of weakness; it’s a way to connect and lead better. Being transparent about our emotional journeys is a call to amplify connection and communication efforts. Inviting our people to voice their negative emotions can also unlock insights and foster genuine connections and drive change.
I recently had the privilege of interviewing Assistant Professor Michael Parke, from Wharton Business School, who emphasised the importance of 'affect labelling', a process of articulating negative emotions at work. "When people are able to voice things like frustration or anxiety... it can actually be seen as credible and help managers understand and address the underlying issues," he stated. This approach challenges the traditional notion of keeping negative emotions under wraps and highlights how acknowledging them can lead to constructive outcomes.
"Using emotions as a guide can be a powerful way to lead through change."
Reading about how emotions play into change, this brilliant piece by Joanne Free-Pameli, an ECD Certified Consultant, explores how using The Emotional Culture Deck helps teams express and manage their feelings during times of change. The ECD invites and nudges people to be open about their emotions in a safe way, which can help everyone understand each other and work together better.
Another great example is how KPMG used The Emotional Culture Deck. In this video Eva Perrone shares the journey they've been on to help their leaders be more intentional about shaping how their teams feel and act during a big period of change. By focusing on the team's emotions, they were able to navigate the change more effectively.
"Strength comes from vulnerability and emotional connection."
I've long admired Golden State Head Coach Steve Kerr's approach to leadership and high performance.Joy is one of NBA coach Steve Kerr’s team values (along with mindfulness, compassion, and competition). He shows us how to use emotions as a competitive advantage, how to strike the balance that challenges the traditional archetype of leadership, and instead demonstrates that strength comes from vulnerability and emotional connection.
Here’s what you can do to make this part of your leadership:
Emotions are a huge part of how we handle change. By being open and responsive to the emotions of your team, you’ll be able to lead through change more effectively. Remember, it's about connecting as people, not just as professionals.
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